Stop Circling The Same Decision, Get Clear, and Make a Move

Go from feeling stuck and second-guessing yourself to having a direction you can actually stand behind.

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BREAK FREE FROM THE CYCLE OF PUSHING THROUGH

You've Hit a Wall Trying To Think Your Way Through This.

Staying stuck isn’t the answer.
Neither is circling the same decision for another year.
And you definitely don’t want to wake up five years from now in the same place.

At the same time, making the wrong move feels risky.

What you want is clarity.
Something solid.
A decision you can stand behind.

That’s what we work toward together.


And somewhere in there is the quiet thought:

What’s wrong with me?

Why can’t I figure this out?

Meanwhile, everyone around you seems decisive. Certain. Moving forward. 

So you start comparing. You question yourself even more.

 








You’ve journaled.
Made the pros and cons lists.
Talked it out with friends.
Told yourself to be grateful.
Reminded yourself the money is good.

And it still feels off

The Make Moves Method

Real change rarely comes from a single breakthrough moment.

It happens through a process.

The Make Moves Method is the framework I use in my coaching to help you understand what has been keeping you stuck and move forward with decisions you can actually stand behind.

Instead of trying to force the “right” answer, we focus on three things:


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The work unfolds across three phases.

Each phase builds on the last so you can move forward without repeating the same cycle again.

Understanding the patterns influencing your decisions
Rebuilding steady trust in your own judgment
Translating insight into real movement in your life or work

Phase One: Awareness

Most people try to solve decisions at the surface level.

Stay in the role or leave.
Start something new or wait.
Push through or change direction.

But the real blockers usually sit underneath the decision.

In this phase we slow things down and build awareness of the patterns influencing how you think, react, and interpret situations. We use the Energy Leadership Index (ELI) assessment along with coaching to map what has been happening internally.


Identify the thought patterns that keep pulling you back into the same decisions
Separate facts from the assumptions and stories influencing your reactions
Understand the emotional triggers that shape how you evaluate risk and change
See the patterns behind the outcomes that keep repeating


You clearly understand what has been happening and why it has been difficult to change.

understanding what is actually happening

Phase Two: Inner Authority

When you are circling a decision, it usually means too many voices are in the room.

Advice from friends.
Expectations from family.
Pressure to make the “right” move.

At the same time, the questions in your head get louder.

“What if I regret this?”
 “What if I walk away from something good?”
 “What if I’m wrong?”

This phase focuses on strengthening your internal steadiness so decisions stop coming from fear, pressure, or second-guessing.



Reconnect you with the values and priorities that matter most right now
Strengthen your voice and decision-making confidence
Reduce the second-guessing that keeps decisions stuck in analysis
Build the internal steadiness needed to move forward


You begin trusting your own judgment again.

Rebuilding trush in your own thinking

Phase Three: Aligned Action

Turning insight into real movement

Insight without action is where most personal growth work stops.

In this phase we translate what you have uncovered into clear decisions and sustainable action.

Sometimes that means having a conversation you have been avoiding.
Sometimes it means setting a boundary.
Sometimes it means finally acting on something you have been thinking about for years.











together we:

results:

together we:

results:

together we:

results:

Clarify the decision that needs to be made
Map the next step forward in a practical way
Prepare for important conversations or changes
Create forward movement that continues beyond coaching







You stop circling the same decision and start moving forward with intention



What's Included

The Make Moves Method is delivered through a structured coaching engagement designed to move you from reflection into real decisions and action.

Your coaching experience includes:

Eight private 1:1 coaching sessions where we work through the phases together

Energy Leadership Index (ELI) assessment and debrief to uncover the thinking patterns influencing your decisions

Structured exercises and reflection tools to help clarify patterns, priorities, and direction

Support between sessions when real decisions or situations arise

A clear process for translating insight into action

Coaching engagements are typically completed over a three-month period to allow time for reflection, integration, and forward movement.

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Coaching is perfect for the person who:

You look like you have it all together, but secretly, you're totally stuck on what to do next with your life or job.

You've been thinking about this for a while, maybe even years, but you're still stuck on the same problems.

You're done taking everyone else's advice about what you should be doing. What you really want is the space to figure out what feels right to you.

You keep thinking: "Why can't I figure this out?" or "What if I make the wrong move?"

You want real direction, not another pros and cons list

You’re ready to look honestly at the patterns influencing your decisions, even when it requires deeper reflection and facing uncomfortable truths.

Values a safe and empathetic space where they can reflect and grow.



Coaching is not for the person who:

Expects quick fixes or instant results without being willing to engage in deeper self-reflection or personal growth.

Is unwilling to challenge their current thought patterns or step outside their comfort zone.

Is looking for someone to tell you exactly what decision to make.

Is resistant to exploring how their mindset, emotions, and energy affect their life and choices.

 Is not ready to take action once clarity begins to emerge.

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Before working with Sharilyn, I felt stuck. I had ambitions for my career and personal growth, but I couldn’t clearly articulate what I wanted or how to get there. I was juggling ideas, unsure how to prioritize them or present myself as the leader I aspired to be. I was stuck in a story of job titles, rather than realizing my narrative included so much more. Sharilyn helped me name the skill set I’ve developed throughout my career and my volunteer experience. 

Sharilyn helped me develop a new language around my work experience and what I want to do in my next role. . And, she did so with honesty, empathy, and sharp insight. She also helped me assess the energy levels that I operate at and how to identify when I need to make adjustments. We ended each session with clear tasks for me to accomplish and concepts for me to think about.

Now, I approach my work and leadership development with much more clarity and purpose. If you’re considering working with Sharilyn, do it. She will meet you where you are, help you name what’s been out of focus, and guide you toward what’s possible.

- Yolanda R. Arrington | Digital Media Strategist


Our sessions were eye-opening and forced me to reflect in new ways. She gave me the terminology to speak confidently about areas in which I needed to grow, especially as a leader.

I faced several challenges, including procrastination, lingering depression, mental exhaustion, brain fog, and, at times, confusion about what steps to take next.

In the past, I had relied solely on self-motivation, pushing myself to move forward without much outside guidance.

Working with Sharilyn wasn’t easy at first. The sessions were mentally draining, but by the end of each one, I could clearly see the benefits, insights, and opportunities she helped me uncover. I always left each session feeling lighter, more inspired, and equipped with a clear action plan for the next steps in my journey.

Sharilyn is incredibly patient, non-judgmental, and an excellent listener. She has a unique ability to help you find your own solutions, guiding you through your struggles and revealing answers that were often right in front of you, but not yet recognized.

- Craig Bosket | Designer & Entrepreneur


The sessions were mentally draining, but by the end of each one, I could clearly see the benefits, insights, and opportunities she helped me uncover.

I had the opopportunity to be coached by Sharilyn during a season when a lot was converging at once. I was navigating the early stages of launching my own business, facing challenges in my nine-to-five role, and stepping into new motherhood. It was a full, intense chapter of life, and at times it felt overwhelming.

Working with Sharilyn was deeply transformative. There were many powerful “aha” moments, but what stood out most was how she helped me gain awareness and agency over the thoughts that had been spinning out of control internally. Through her coaching sessions I began to recognize the stories I had been unconsciously telling myself and the internal “gremlins” I had allowed to run roughshod over my decisions, confidence, and energy.

That awareness changed everything.

Since completing our coaching sessions, I’ve been newly promoted, and my business is growing. I genuinely don’t believe that would have been possible without the clarity, grounding, and inner shift I experienced through my work with Sharylin. She didn’t just help me cope she helped me take control, reframe my inner landscape, and move forward with intention.

-Talicia Tempro | Leadership Executive & Founder, Be the Bloom

Since completing our coaching sessions, I’ve been newly promoted, and my business is growing.

I struggled with my voice and presence in sales, specifically as a woman in a male-dominated industry. I wanted to improve my business acumen, confidence, and ability to present effectively in a room with key players. Sharilyn helped me define my unique voice and develop the self-assurance to engage with different personas. Through mindset techniques, role-playing, and even teaching me the effectiveness of a power stance(!),

Sharilyn gave me the tools to excel. I feel more confident and capable than ever in my sales career and as a business woman, now with my own company. I highly recommend Sharilyn to any woman looking to elevate her career, find her authentic voice, and become the professional she aspires to be.

- Caroline Morano | Sales Professional & Business Owner

Working with Sharilyn Chavez has been a game-changer for me.

One stand-out part of working with Sharilyn is her way of cutting to the heart of a challenge, with empathy. This really helped our sessions to be productive, enabling us to spend time on what really matters and is going to be a lasting impact, rather than a short-term adjustment. Her people leadership, experience across multiple industries and her outstanding sales acumen, were all so valuable as I navigated work related challenges.

Sharilyn was just as adept helping me navigate life challenges when they arose and helped me get out of my head by helping me with visioning and goal setting. 

- Dawn McGoldrick | Executive Coach & Former Deloitte Partner

Sharilyn is an intuitive coach who creates a safe non-judgmental space for every session.

I felt lost, overwhelmed, and unsure of the direction I was heading. I had tried holding myself accountable on my own, but without outside support, I wasn't making the progress I needed.

During our work together, I felt completely empowered. Sharilyn helped me understand the deeper reasons behind my reactions and behavior, giving me invaluable tools to self-reflect and set personal boundaries. I learned how to center myself amidst the chaos, and that made a huge difference in my ability to stay grounded and focused in my personal and professional life.

Now, I have a much clearer sense of purpose. I’ve stopped giving so much power to things that no longer serve me, and everything seems much more manageable. Life doesn't feel as extreme anymore, and I have a renewed sense of clarity and direction.

If you're considering working with Sharilyn, I can't recommend her enough. She’s incredible. She will help you find your power, equip you with the tools you need, and set you on the path to achieving your goals and planning for a bright future. Working with Sharilyn has truly been a game-changer.

- Tara Fdaee | Sales Professional

Before working with Sharilyn, I was struggling to find my purpose and regain my drive in my professional life.

She was able to help me explore areas in my life that needed attention in very natural and impactful ways. Sharilyn's coaching style is easy-going, yet powerful. I have no doubt many others would benefit from a coaching relationship with her.

- Lon Wong | Leadership Consultant

Sharilyn Chavez is a wonderful and intuitive coach

You don't need to have everything figured out before reaching out

If you feel stuck in a decision, questioning your next move, or quietly wondering if something in your life needs to change, this is the place to start.

Our first conversation is simply a chance to talk through what has been weighing on you and see whether working together makes sense.

You do not need the perfect explanation or a fully formed plan.

You just need a place to begin.

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